If you have been a military spouse or have been around the military community for any length of time, chances are you have heard the term "Dependa" or "Tricare-A-Tops." Both terms traditionally used in a demeaning form meant to make fun of the stereotypical military spouse. But I think it's time we flip that term on its head and lean into the badge of honor that is being a MilSpouse. So if you find yourself performing the pre-wash uniform pen pocket search, having "delightful" phone conversations with Tricare, or trying to convince yourself that PCSing is just another form of travel; than this club is for you.
The truth is, over the last 10 years or so that I have been registered with the government as my ol man's "dependa," rarely have I met a spouse that even comes close to that stereotype. For many of us, we are hard working women who embrace our individuality and take pride in what we contribute to society.
...I think it's time we flip that term on its head and lean into the badge of honor that is being a MilSpouse...
Never have I met a person who includes their partners rank in their introduction... or maybe I just haven't gotten out much. With two toddlers at home, that maybe the case. But who I HAVE met are nurses, doctors, teachers, lawyers, students, moms, scientists, researchers, entrepreneurs, veterans, etc. The list goes on and on. All badass women in their own right, conquering life and holding their head high. We just all happen to have ties to this big thing called Military Life. And because of that life, our families and connections reach farther than ever. It's about damn time we flip the script.
So What Do You Expect?
Just like the podcast, we don't have a clue what we're doing... but we're going to have fun and try to bring as many people long with us as possible. A group of hippos is called a "bloat" and I can related to that at least monthly, so that will probably be the frequency of new content. I'll post blogs, events, resources and other tips and tricks on the page. And who knows, maybe my sponsor will let me take over the podcast every once and awhile to answer your specific questions or comments about military life. In the meantime, check out the Full Dependa section of our store for all dependa merch. And if you've made it to the end of this nonsense, go treat yourself with a discount on all club items using code "DEPENDA" at check out. Because I do know we all love a good discount.
To reach the Desk to the Dependa, contact us on all things social media @WhiskeyTangoChaos or via email whiskeytangochaos@gmail.com.
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